"I'm surprised I'm in the book -- I wouldn't know Sean Wilsey if he walked in my front door," said de Wildt, a Hollander known for his witty one- liners and scathing put-downs. Dede Wilsey's House (Google Maps). var settings = cookieSettings[cookieName]; (function defernl() { There were two choices: Be without one museum or rebuild it. These pursuits along with her frequent appearances on the charity social circuit are why some people refer to Wilsey as a socialite. //after successful signup, hide the signup bar after 5 seconds By continuing to use our sites and applications, you agree to our use of cookies. '